Restoration of the Faught Cemetery, Sonoma County, Santa Rosa, California
by Susan Faught, October 10, 1999
Susan describes her gallant effort to
restore a demolished and desecrated cemetery, despite action from county
officials to prevent her from doing so.
I come from a very close-knit family. While going to college, my interests
were always history, archeology, and anthropology. My summers were spent
helping out at a local dig which is now Olampali State Park. Than I was
married soon after, and devoted my time to raising the four children my
husband and I had. History and the curiosity was lost most of those years
but when my marriage ended in divorce five years ago, I went back to college.
I studied art this time and that in some ways brought back my natural
curiosity for the past.
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| Grave stones of Armstrong and Isabel
Faught. Click to enlarge. |
Last year while driving in the country I decided to stop by our private
family cemetery that dates back to 1859. I got lost many times trying
to locate it because I hadn't been there in over 15 years. When I did
find it I was outraged. There was hardly a headstone that was left intact.
Pieces and remnants lay strewn across the oak wooded hillside, I saw signs
of recent digging, and the beer bottles and cans gave me evidence that
this hallowed spot was used over the years as a hangout for parties. I
started by spending my weekends cleaning up and hauling away the trash,
which did no good at all for on my next visit, I'd have to start all over
again. I felt I was fighting a battle I couldn't control. I would turn
away equestrians telling them they were on, for one, private property
and that this was a cemetery; they couldn't ride their thousand pound
animals through here any longer. Some would listen with understanding
and respect and others would fight me saying that they have always ridden
through the cemetery and would continue to do so. I felt I had to do something
drastic in order to preserve what was left of my families cemetery for
the future.
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| Lemay area of cemetery. Grave
stones knocked over from their places. Click to enlarge. |
The property is basically divided into two separate areas - a beautiful
field with hundred year old oaks, and a treed hillside of the cemetery.
I moved a motorhome onto the field, installed power and phone and moved
in. I felt that the only way I could protect and preserve this property
was by having a 24 hour presence on the property. I started, once again
by cleaning the property, and at the same time located a county map that
was filed by my family in 1902 when the property was deeded a cemetery.
It had been divided up into parcels for each branch of the family and
also life-long good neighbors and friends of the Faughts. With this I
had at least an idea where the headstones belonged. The parcels were also
listed and filed in the county record department, but during the time
period were talking about, most were written in pencil and in large books
that you literally had to turn each page, scan it for any names you recognized,
copy down that information and bring it up in microfiche. It was a long,
arduous task that meant spending many days searching through many years
to, sometimes, find one name. As I was doing the cleanup of the property
I would happen on stakes that were partly rotted away and after measuring
carefully, I found that these were the actually corners to each parcel.
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| Jabez Faught headstone that Susan brought
back up the hill. Click to enlarge. |
The next step was to try and piece the fragments together and eventually
place them in their parcels. I struggled for six months trying out different
methods, and finally used a comalong and trees to bring the pieces to
where I would cement them back together. Some were smaller and I could
carry them with a little effort up the hillside, but others took many
weeks. I would work them up the hillside, yard by yard, go home exhausted
and give it a try another day. I have them all up the hill where they
belong right now except one stubborn spire-shaped piece that is intact
and weighs in the hundreds. It had been wedged in the creek bed beneath
silt, which required careful removal of the gravel and silt around it,
and them covering with an old blanket, wrapping ropes around it and hauling
it up a %15 grade. It was after I removed it from the creek bed and brought
it over the bank that I discovered that I had no trees around me to use.
So here it will sit till I figure out my next move.
Its been frustrating and often times I've wanted to give up, challenging
but I was determined, and elated when my plan actually worked. I had,
at first tried to locate members of the family that would lend a hand
but found that their work schedule or their age did not permit this. I
was left with the only option of doing the work myself.
I was given a genealogy chart by my ex husband about a month into the
work to help decipher who was who and how they were related. This was
a great help but it was done from memory. I spent the next (endless) months
in the Sonoma County Historic Library sifting through their many volumes
of the history for this area. I knew that the three original brother who
migrated by wagon train to this area in 1854 must be in some records one
way or another as I had seen articles in the local paper about their exploits.
I happened on a gold mine, as I like to say. Not only did these volumes
hold family members and their biographies, it also held the other neighbors
or friends bios that were in this cemetery. Along with these was a listing
of offspring and birth and death records. As anyone doing searches on
genealogy can say, its a long hard process into the past that often times
were lost or hidden.
I have come to love and cherish this place; I had no idea last year how
involved I would be in the restoration, history, genealogy, or every facet
of these people and their kin - I only knew that this was a worthwhile
project for not only my family but for Sonoma County as a community. It
had brought out my natural instincts as an archeologist, anthropologist,
and historian. I assumed that other people felt the same way.
I was wrong.
Last month, I was notified by Sonoma County, the Department of Resource
Management to be exact, that I was in violation. I was told I could no
longer "camp" here (their words), my power was to be turned off, and I
was ordered to vacate the property. I went in, like every law abiding
citizen to try to state my case, reason with them, assure them that what
I was attempting was by no means conventional but effective for the time
being. I showed them the documents that made this private cemetery a historic
landmark for Sonoma County and needed to be protected as such. I asked
for ways to protect this property from further destruction if I was forced,
by law, to leave. I was told that Sonoma County has hundreds of family
cemeteries in just this state of ruin and that was not their concern.
This angered me. I made an appointment with my district supervisor thinking
that he was my representative in this community - with the same result.
His secretary passed on the message that I now had 14 days left for power.
The original letter posted to me said that I would be imposed with criminal
and civil penalties should I chose to stay. I had no other choice - my
options were leave and tolerate the destruction that ensued - or stay,
be fined and perhaps jailed in defiance. I called the local papers. They
responded by doing a story on the plight of this local cemetery. It ran
on the Wednesday edition, September 6, 1999.
The morning the article came out I was overwhelmed with the response
from members of my community. The local paper was receiving more mail
in my support. I was contacted by channel 7 of the San Francisco bay area
TV station to do a feature. The best part of this story is that I was
also contacted by a member of the family I had lost touch with twenty
years ago. As she related to me over the phone that night, she and her
aged brother were having coffee that morning while reading the paper.
She yelled at him to get dressed and to start up the car, thrust the paper
at him in explanation, gave a whoop, and they drove over to the cemetery
at a break neck pace. Sadly I was at work when they arrived, but when
I got home that night to find their note on the motorhome, I was doing
my own whooping too. For I had not only recognized the name but also the
handwriting.
When she and her brother, both around 78 years old, arrived at the property,
he sped off without her and yelled down for her to keep up - he wanted
to see the cemetery. She said they both cried with joy when they read
the article. They had stopped coming here because it had been too heartbreaking
for them both. They had raised kids, grandkids, but could find no one
interested in preserving this history. When they read the article saying
that some member of the family was going to stay in defiance of the county
laws and continue with the restoration, they were overjoyed.
This fight is by far not over. I know and feel that common sense will
prevail. I have a lawyer that is fighting with me now. I have the support
of the community with me. I know the county thinks that this is only "one
in hundreds of cemeteries" in this county that have been destroyed by
vandals so what is the big deal. The big deal is that this is our heritage,
it is our roots in society. It is our duty, both yours and mine, to do
our utmost to protect and preserve these cemeteries for the future. I'm
going to continue to fight for the protection of this cemetery. I will
be charged with criminal and civil penalties if it goes that far but I
cannot back down now. I'm not fighting for only the right to preserve
this cemetery - it could be your county next that has this blase attitude.
- Susan Faught [RdDrgan@aol.com]
To view a list of the interments at Faught Cemetery, visit "Faught
Cemetery" at Cemetery Records Online.
Reader Responses
- 10-15-1999, Linda Dooley Menikos [lmenikos@flash.net],
"How brave you are Susan! I will be rooting for you.
It is disgraceful that the county is not supporting you in this.
I hope all the publicity has a positive effect and you get help.
Linda"
- 10-15-1999, Pat Shaw [patshaw@netins.net],
"Susan is doing a great service to cemetery restorers everywhere
by bringing this issue to the forefront. Too often persons
dedicated to such endeavors feel they are the only ones who really
care, which is not true."
- 10-15-1999, Paul Jordan-Smith [jordansmith@uswest.net],
"Bravo, indeed! There seem to be few lengths to which bureaucracy
will not go just to make its presence felt. Indeed, it will make
exaggerated efforts to impede the voluntary work of others, work
that it will not do itself. Yours is the kind of struggle that
should be taken note of by officialdom: a grassroots effort that
brings results. Keep up the good fight, Susan!"
- 10-15-1999. Louise Worthy [WORTHYagent@WEBTV.NET],
"Keep up the good work. Get a copy of the Ca. Cemetery Codes.
Get a family mass mailing to the Gov. and all sorts of officials.
It took ten years but my family has just got the designation of
Pioneer Cemetery for our ancestors outside of Omaha, Ne.
The Nebraska State Historical Society declared it a archeological
site. This declaration just made in Aug. 1999. You
already have the newspapers behind you as well as the TV station."
- 10-15-1999, Diane McBain [dianemcbain@yahoo.com],
"Way to go Susan! I was born and raised in Northern Calif.
If I weren't in Wash. state I'd come and help you. God be with
you and keep fighting."
- 10-15-1999, Philip Van Camp [pvc@vancamp.org],
"What exactly are you supposed to be in "violation"
of ? If the land has been deeded to & is owned by the
county, then trespass at most. If the county is not interested,
perhaps they would vacate their title & return it to you,
a relative, or a "Faught family" corp. That would
relieve them of liability if one of those partiers were hurt on
the property & decided to sue. Dollars are what they do care
about."
- 10-15-1999, Melinda Totten Crowder [edelhaus@email.unc.edu],
"Susan, I understand fully what you are feeling. Just
two weeks ago, my mother and I found where my third gt grandfather
is buried in Columbia, SC. We left home and after driving
four hours found the cemetery. Upon arriving it sits among
beautiful trees over looking a lake. Half a million and
million dollar homes are all around the cemetery. The developers
wanted to build on the site!! A board of trustees was set
up. I don't know how or by whom, but thank God they
took it to court and won. The information below may be of
help to you if you contact the name I have listed. This young
man is on the board and just very recently a new headstone was
place on my gt,gt,gt,grandfather's grave. Vandals had destroyed
along with mother nature the headstones. Get this,
the Federal government paid for his headstone. He served
in the war of 1812 and Civil War. We had been searching
for ten years to find his grave. Thanks be to God, a wonderful
lady saw a posting we had put of several family web sites and
wrote me with the information of where he was buried.
She just happened to remember the name. Praise God.
I pray this will help you and others in obtaining their rights
in this country where it the land of the free and the home of
the brave. You are one of the brave Susan. Get in touch
with Mark Lynn, He may be able to help tell you what or to whom
to speak concerning your family cemetery. He is on the board
of trustees for the Kelly Cemetery located in Columbia, SC.
God only knows how all this was accomplished by this board to
fight the developers and Win!! His address is:
Mark Lynn, 25 Blake Drive, Arden, NC, 28704. It is
near Asheville, NC. He has no computer, but has access
to one. His phone: 1-828-654-0977. He is one
of the Trustees of the Kelly Cemetery, and the marker was issued
by the government. The old headstone was gone - vandals.
- 10-15-1999, Norma J. Miller [PMiller864@aol.com],
"I think what you are doing is great. If it were not for
the distance I would stand beside you and help you. If I can do
anything else from this distance please tell me what it is and
I will do it.
- 10-15-1999, Judith Goodwin [Satie1037@aol.com],
"Hi, Susan, Perhaps you should publish
the names and addresses of county board members AND elected officials?
It sounds as if they are unaware of a great resurgence of interest
in genealogy in this country. Is the Cemetery eligible for
laws are now being made to protect these hallowed grounds. Is
the cemetery eligible for inclusion in the National Register for
Historic Places? You might want to do the paperwork and
once completed, they would have to back off. Good Luck!
What you are doing is so admirable."
- 10-15-1999, Joe Patterson [joepat@pacifier.com],
"Hello Susan, Three cheers for you! Most of the people
who hear about your situation will be behind you! I have
a vandalized cemetery in Texas that I intend to restore, also,
made difficult because I live in Washington State. My pictures
of broken stones look a lot like yours. Fortunately, the
county and the State of Texas are on our side, not against you
like Sonoma County. In the end, the county officials will
have to yield to public demand. Keep up the publicity!
My heart is with you!"
- 10-16-1999, Ruth Shapleigh-Brown [shapbrown@home.com],
"Susan - you go girl! As stated in other comments we
are in your corner and your not alone! Each one of us across
the country, that gets involved is the only way we will ever right
these wrongs and save our heritage. Anything that the Association
for Gravestones Studies or Connecticut Gravestone Network can
help - let me know."
- 10-17-1999, K G Teal [NorthbyNW@AOL.com],
"It's a shame when it all comes down to this, that you have
to fight to defend the very burial grounds, the memorials &
memories of those who've gone before us. And then, even when you're
willing to give all your time & effort, alone, if need be,
they still won't allow you to do so. What ever happened to common
respect, tradition, & the care of cemeteries that people always
took for granted? How can people so neglect & turn their back
on these memorials to people's lives? And the dead we've buried?
Because when all is said & done, love's last gift is remembrance.
And thank you, Susan, for remembering..."
- 11-10-1999, Philip Baker [flipper@froggernet.com],
"Best of luck to you. I know much of what your going thru,
although I didn't have any problem with my county, I went thru
restoring our private cemetery that was also in total shambles.
Twenty plus stones were stolen in the 60's, leaving only four
remaining. I could never have accomplished a total restoral without
the help of a local boyscout, that needed a community project
to get his Eagle badge. I was fortunate in that he had a father
that owned an excavating company and made available all of his
heavy equipment & employees under the direction of the scout.
Something on this order may be good for you. There are many programs
out there like "make a difference day" & others.
Find a group or organization that might be willing to furnish
volunteers, equipment. Some to look into might be the American
Legion, Veterans of Foreign War, (look in your yellow pages under
"organizations", and talk to anyone who will listen.
Please feel free to E-mail me if I can be of any assistance. Keep
fighting !!!!!
- 11-12-1999, Jim Davenport [jimjanie@fone.net],
Hi Susan, One of my hobbies is photographing tombstones in the
cemeteries. I've seen a number is just the shape that you describe,
and it seems that no one cares. Certainly contact the local veteran's
organizations if any of the folks buried there were any type of
veteran. They may be able to help you to clean it up and restore
it. Also you might check with a local monument company for assistance
in resetting the large monument. Did any of the folks belong to
any fraternal organizations? Many times they will provide some
assistance also. Be sure to get the newspapers and TV involved
on as regular a basis as is reasonable. Keep the problem in the
publics view. Put the heat on the 'government' officials and they
will usually 'see the light'. One fraternal organization that
does a lot of public assistance is Woodmen of the World. I know,
they are an insurance company, but they do have local 'clubs'
and they do a lot of community service. Do any of the tombstones
say Woodmen of the World on them, or Women of Woodcraft, or Neighbors
of Woodcraft? If there are any of those there it may be some more
incentive for them to assist you. I wish that I could help in
your project but Colorado is a bit of a commute. Good luck in
your project. It's not just the small family cemeteries either.
I was to a major one in Albuquerque, NM, Fairview Cemetery, and
the 'historic' part of it was a shambles when I visited a couple
of years ago with trash all over, trees all dead, fence torn down,
most markers knocked over. When I asked in the main office about
the condition of that part of their cemetery I was told that it
was not part of the perpetual care cemetery and they couldn't
keep the vandals out so they don't bother about restoring it any
more."
- 11-16-1999, Marsha Maddux-North [KGBM1234@aol.com],
"Hi! Susan, I just met you online for the first time tonight
and I couldn't be more thrilled. Susan you have located my relatives
in your cemetery that we would never have known where they were.
I hope I can be of some assistance...either as a friend or monetarily...since
I live too far away to help physically. You are a strong person
and I intend to write Sonoma County myself...thank you again from
the bottom of my heart...."
- 11-26-1999, Hugh Kelly [hugokelly@hotmail.com],
"Hi, I am sitting here in Co. Wexford, Ireland, reading your
site and I am fully behind your efforts to preserve your family
cemetery. I am in the process of mapping out our local cemetery
for the PP of our area and I know the problems that arise. I moved
in 3 weeks ago and I found that people are generally very good.I
did find some irregularities on the first day there but when I
approached the people concerned and explained the facts to them,
they were delighted that somebody was concerned. Your plight is
different.You are dealing with "EMPLOYEES" at government level,
whom if you ring them they are of the oppinion that you must not
upset them.Upset them and suffer.This happens in every country
in the world.,Civil servants do not need agro. I am a civil servant
and I can tell you that no matter how difficult the problem is,
I will try to solve it but my COLLEAGUES will not agree. Fight
on and you have the backing of ENNISCORTHY in WEXFORD, Ireland.
Yours Very sincerely HUGH KELLY"
- 12-3-1999, Hellen J Norris [hjnwtn@ayrix.net],
"While reading this article tonight, I was reminded of an
old family cemetery of my dad's family that I have never visited-
there is no road to it in the woods. I have intended to find it
for many years and with your experience I am going when it is
safe (snakes). I admire anyone who has the courage to stand tall
in a country whose people have forgotten how to stand firm on
principles. God bless you."
- 12-9-1999, Sharon [Flintlock@kcnet.com],
"I salute your efforts. So many people would have driven
off. I go each year,travel 500 mi. to take care of my family.
I very seldom make the decoration day, as it is so hot then, but
I go in the spring and the fall to Hot Springs, Ar. I am tryin
to save money for a headstone for my grandmother and grandfather.
I take flowers each time I go, and, after cleaning, the flowers
are placed with LOVE. No, they aren't forgotten. My dad has a
headstone now, with a single rose engraved in it. The lady has
my respect and a cemetery like that is a disgrace to the COUNTY.
Mam, Stand and be heard. We have that problem all over the U.S.
Communities should get together, with the County road dept. and
STOP this disgrace."
- 06-23-2000, Kathie Bachelet [kab315t@mail.smsu.edu]
"Is there any update to your cause? I think what you are
doing is wonderful. I would have thought it was law that cemeteries,
private or otherwise, had to be protected. We rightfully protect
and respect the burial grounds of the American Indians, so why
not other Americans? As an anthropoligest/archeologist you are
well aware that the discovery of ancient relics can bring so called
progress to a halt, as well it should, so why not the graves of
our Ancestors. Keep up the fight."
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