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Restoration of the Faught Cemetery, Sonoma County, Santa Rosa, California

by Susan Faught, October 10, 1999

Susan describes her gallant effort to restore a demolished and desecrated cemetery, despite action from county officials to prevent her from doing so.  

I come from a very close-knit family. While going to college, my interests were always history, archeology, and anthropology. My summers were spent helping out at a local dig which is now Olampali State Park. Than I was married soon after, and devoted my time to raising the four children my husband and I had. History and the curiosity was lost most of those years but when my marriage ended in divorce five years ago, I went back to college. I studied art this time and that in some ways brought back my natural curiosity for the past.

Grave stones of Armstrong and Isabel Faught.  Click to enlarge.

Last year while driving in the country I decided to stop by our private family cemetery that dates back to 1859. I got lost many times trying to locate it because I hadn't been there in over 15 years. When I did find it I was outraged. There was hardly a headstone that was left intact. Pieces and remnants lay strewn across the oak wooded hillside, I saw signs of recent digging, and the beer bottles and cans gave me evidence that this hallowed spot was used over the years as a hangout for parties. I started by spending my weekends cleaning up and hauling away the trash, which did no good at all for on my next visit, I'd have to start all over again. I felt I was fighting a battle I couldn't control. I would turn away equestrians telling them they were on, for one, private property and that this was a cemetery; they couldn't ride their thousand pound animals through here any longer. Some would listen with understanding and respect and others would fight me saying that they have always ridden through the cemetery and would continue to do so. I felt I had to do something drastic in order to preserve what was left of my families cemetery for the future.

Lemay area of cemetery.  Grave stones knocked over from their places.  Click to enlarge.

The property is basically divided into two separate areas - a beautiful field with hundred year old oaks, and a treed hillside of the cemetery. I moved a motorhome onto the field, installed power and phone and moved in. I felt that the only way I could protect and preserve this property was by having a 24 hour presence on the property. I started, once again by cleaning the property, and at the same time located a county map that was filed by my family in 1902 when the property was deeded a cemetery. It had been divided up into parcels for each branch of the family and also life-long good neighbors and friends of the Faughts. With this I had at least an idea where the headstones belonged. The parcels were also listed and filed in the county record department, but during the time period were talking about, most were written in pencil and in large books that you literally had to turn each page, scan it for any names you recognized, copy down that information and bring it up in microfiche. It was a long, arduous task that meant spending many days searching through many years to, sometimes, find one name. As I was doing the cleanup of the property I would happen on stakes that were partly rotted away and after measuring carefully, I found that these were the actually corners to each parcel.

Jabez Faught headstone that Susan brought back up the hill.  Click to enlarge.

The next step was to try and piece the fragments together and eventually place them in their parcels. I struggled for six months trying out different methods, and finally used a comalong and trees to bring the pieces to where I would cement them back together. Some were smaller and I could carry them with a little effort up the hillside, but others took many weeks. I would work them up the hillside, yard by yard, go home exhausted and give it a try another day. I have them all up the hill where they belong right now except one stubborn spire-shaped piece that is intact and weighs in the hundreds. It had been wedged in the creek bed beneath silt, which required careful removal of the gravel and silt around it, and them covering with an old blanket, wrapping ropes around it and hauling it up a %15 grade. It was after I removed it from the creek bed and brought it over the bank that I discovered that I had no trees around me to use. So here it will sit till I figure out my next move.

Its been frustrating and often times I've wanted to give up, challenging but I was determined, and elated when my plan actually worked. I had, at first tried to locate members of the family that would lend a hand but found that their work schedule or their age did not permit this. I was left with the only option of doing the work myself.

I was given a genealogy chart by my ex husband about a month into the work to help decipher who was who and how they were related. This was a great help but it was done from memory. I spent the next (endless) months in the Sonoma County Historic Library sifting through their many volumes of the history for this area. I knew that the three original brother who migrated by wagon train to this area in 1854 must be in some records one way or another as I had seen articles in the local paper about their exploits. I happened on a gold mine, as I like to say. Not only did these volumes hold family members and their biographies, it also held the other neighbors or friends bios that were in this cemetery. Along with these was a listing of offspring and birth and death records. As anyone doing searches on genealogy can say, its a long hard process into the past that often times were lost or hidden.

I have come to love and cherish this place; I had no idea last year how involved I would be in the restoration, history, genealogy, or every facet of these people and their kin - I only knew that this was a worthwhile project for not only my family but for Sonoma County as a community. It had brought out my natural instincts as an archeologist, anthropologist, and historian. I assumed that other people felt the same way.

I was wrong.

Last month, I was notified by Sonoma County, the Department of Resource Management to be exact, that I was in violation. I was told I could no longer "camp" here (their words), my power was to be turned off, and I was ordered to vacate the property. I went in, like every law abiding citizen to try to state my case, reason with them, assure them that what I was attempting was by no means conventional but effective for the time being. I showed them the documents that made this private cemetery a historic landmark for Sonoma County and needed to be protected as such. I asked for ways to protect this property from further destruction if I was forced, by law, to leave. I was told that Sonoma County has hundreds of family cemeteries in just this state of ruin and that was not their concern. This angered me. I made an appointment with my district supervisor thinking that he was my representative in this community - with the same result. His secretary passed on the message that I now had 14 days left for power. The original letter posted to me said that I would be imposed with criminal and civil penalties should I chose to stay. I had no other choice - my options were leave and tolerate the destruction that ensued - or stay, be fined and perhaps jailed in defiance. I called the local papers. They responded by doing a story on the plight of this local cemetery. It ran on the Wednesday edition, September 6, 1999.

The morning the article came out I was overwhelmed with the response from members of my community. The local paper was receiving more mail in my support. I was contacted by channel 7 of the San Francisco bay area TV station to do a feature. The best part of this story is that I was also contacted by a member of the family I had lost touch with twenty years ago. As she related to me over the phone that night, she and her aged brother were having coffee that morning while reading the paper. She yelled at him to get dressed and to start up the car, thrust the paper at him in explanation, gave a whoop, and they drove over to the cemetery at a break neck pace. Sadly I was at work when they arrived, but when I got home that night to find their note on the motorhome, I was doing my own whooping too. For I had not only recognized the name but also the handwriting.

When she and her brother, both around 78 years old, arrived at the property, he sped off without her and yelled down for her to keep up - he wanted to see the cemetery. She said they both cried with joy when they read the article. They had stopped coming here because it had been too heartbreaking for them both. They had raised kids, grandkids, but could find no one interested in preserving this history. When they read the article saying that some member of the family was going to stay in defiance of the county laws and continue with the restoration, they were overjoyed.

This fight is by far not over. I know and feel that common sense will prevail. I have a lawyer that is fighting with me now. I have the support of the community with me. I know the county thinks that this is only "one in hundreds of cemeteries" in this county that have been destroyed by vandals so what is the big deal. The big deal is that this is our heritage, it is our roots in society. It is our duty, both yours and mine, to do our utmost to protect and preserve these cemeteries for the future. I'm going to continue to fight for the protection of this cemetery. I will be charged with criminal and civil penalties if it goes that far but I cannot back down now. I'm not fighting for only the right to preserve this cemetery - it could be your county next that has this blase attitude.

- Susan Faught [RdDrgan@aol.com]

To view a list of the interments at Faught Cemetery, visit "Faught Cemetery" at Cemetery Records Online.

Reader Responses

  • 10-15-1999, Linda Dooley Menikos [lmenikos@flash.net], "How brave you are Susan! I will be rooting for you.  It is disgraceful that the county is not supporting you in this. I hope all the publicity has a positive effect and you get help.  Linda"
  • 10-15-1999, Pat Shaw [patshaw@netins.net], "Susan is doing a great service to cemetery restorers everywhere by bringing this issue to the forefront.  Too often persons dedicated to such endeavors feel they are the only ones who really care, which is not true."
  • 10-15-1999, Paul Jordan-Smith [jordansmith@uswest.net], "Bravo, indeed! There seem to be few lengths to which bureaucracy will not go just to make its presence felt. Indeed, it will make exaggerated efforts to impede the voluntary work of others, work that it will not do itself. Yours is the kind of struggle that should be taken note of by officialdom: a grassroots effort that brings results. Keep up the good fight, Susan!"
  • 10-15-1999. Louise Worthy [WORTHYagent@WEBTV.NET], "Keep up the good work. Get a copy of the Ca. Cemetery Codes.  Get a family mass mailing to the Gov. and all sorts of officials.  It took ten years but my family has just got the designation of Pioneer Cemetery for our ancestors outside of Omaha, Ne.  The Nebraska State Historical Society declared it a archeological site.  This declaration just made in Aug. 1999.  You already have the newspapers behind you as well as the TV station."
  • 10-15-1999, Diane McBain [dianemcbain@yahoo.com], "Way to go Susan! I was born and raised in Northern Calif.  If I weren't in Wash. state I'd come and help you. God be with you and keep fighting."
  • 10-15-1999, Philip Van Camp [pvc@vancamp.org], "What exactly are you supposed to be in "violation" of ?  If the land has been deeded to & is owned by the county, then trespass at most.  If the county is not interested, perhaps they would vacate their title & return it to you, a relative, or a "Faught family" corp.  That would relieve them of liability if one of those partiers were hurt on the property & decided to sue. Dollars are what they do care about."
  • 10-15-1999, Melinda Totten Crowder [edelhaus@email.unc.edu], "Susan, I understand fully what you are feeling.  Just two weeks ago, my mother and I found where my third gt grandfather is buried in Columbia, SC.  We left home and after driving four hours found the cemetery.  Upon arriving it sits among beautiful trees over looking a lake.  Half a million and million dollar homes are all around the cemetery.  The developers wanted to build on the site!!  A board of trustees was set up.  I  don't know how or by whom, but thank God they took it to court and won.  The information below may be of help to you if you contact the name I have listed. This young man is on the board and just very recently a new headstone was place on my gt,gt,gt,grandfather's grave.  Vandals had destroyed along with mother nature the headstones.  Get this,  the Federal government paid for his headstone.  He served in the war of 1812 and Civil War.  We had been searching for ten years to find his grave.  Thanks be to God, a wonderful lady saw a posting we had put of several family web sites and wrote me with the information of where he was buried.   She just happened to remember the name.  Praise God.  I pray this will help you and others in obtaining their rights in this country where it the land of the free and the home of the brave.  You are one of the brave Susan. Get in touch with Mark Lynn, He may be able to help tell you what or to whom to speak concerning your family cemetery.  He is on the board of trustees for the Kelly Cemetery located in Columbia, SC.  God only knows how all this was accomplished by this board to fight the developers and Win!!  His address is:   Mark Lynn,  25 Blake Drive,  Arden, NC, 28704. It is near Asheville, NC.   He has no computer, but has access to one.  His phone:  1-828-654-0977.  He is one of the Trustees of the Kelly Cemetery, and the marker was issued by the government.  The old headstone was gone - vandals.
  • 10-15-1999, Norma J. Miller [PMiller864@aol.com], "I think what you are doing is great. If it were not for the distance I would stand beside you and help you. If I can do anything else from this distance please tell me what it is and I will do it.
  • 10-15-1999, Judith Goodwin [Satie1037@aol.com], "Hi, Susan,    Perhaps you should publish the names and addresses of county board members AND elected officials?  It sounds as if they are unaware of a great resurgence of interest in genealogy in this country.  Is the Cemetery eligible for laws are now being made to protect these hallowed grounds. Is the cemetery eligible for inclusion in the National Register for Historic Places?  You might want to do the paperwork and once completed, they would have to back off.  Good Luck!  What you are doing is so admirable."
  • 10-15-1999, Joe Patterson [joepat@pacifier.com], "Hello Susan, Three cheers for you!  Most of the people who hear about your situation will be behind you!  I have a vandalized cemetery in Texas that I intend to restore, also, made difficult because I live in Washington State.  My pictures of broken stones look a lot like yours.  Fortunately, the county and the State of Texas are on our side, not against you like Sonoma County.  In the end, the county officials will have to yield to public demand.  Keep up the publicity!  
    My heart is with you!"
  • 10-16-1999, Ruth Shapleigh-Brown [shapbrown@home.com], "Susan - you go girl!  As stated in other comments we are in your corner and your not alone!  Each one of us across the country, that gets involved is the only way we will ever right these wrongs and save our heritage. Anything that the Association for Gravestones Studies or Connecticut Gravestone Network can help - let me know."
  • 10-17-1999, K G Teal [NorthbyNW@AOL.com], "It's a shame when it all comes down to this, that you have to fight to defend the very burial grounds, the memorials & memories of those who've gone before us. And then, even when you're willing to give all your time & effort, alone, if need be, they still won't allow you to do so. What ever happened to common respect, tradition, & the care of cemeteries that people always took for granted? How can people so neglect & turn their back on these memorials to people's lives? And the dead we've buried? Because when all is said & done, love's last gift is remembrance. And thank you, Susan, for remembering..."
  • 11-10-1999, Philip Baker [flipper@froggernet.com], "Best of luck to you. I know much of what your going thru, although I didn't have any problem with my county, I went thru restoring our private cemetery that was also in total shambles. Twenty plus stones were stolen in the 60's, leaving only four remaining. I could never have accomplished a total restoral without the help of a local boyscout, that needed a community project to get his Eagle badge. I was fortunate in that he had a father that owned an excavating company and made available all of his heavy equipment & employees under the direction of the scout. Something on this order may be good for you. There are many programs out there like "make a difference day" & others. Find a group or organization that might be willing to furnish volunteers, equipment.  Some to look into might be the American Legion, Veterans of Foreign War, (look in your yellow pages under "organizations", and talk to anyone who will listen.  Please feel free to E-mail me if I can be of any assistance. Keep fighting !!!!!
  • 11-12-1999, Jim Davenport [jimjanie@fone.net], Hi Susan, One of my hobbies is photographing tombstones in the cemeteries. I've seen a number is just the shape that you describe, and it seems that no one cares. Certainly contact the local veteran's organizations if any of the folks buried there were any type of veteran. They may be able to help you to clean it up and restore it. Also you might check with a local monument company for assistance in resetting the large monument. Did any of the folks belong to any fraternal organizations? Many times they will provide some assistance also. Be sure to get the newspapers and TV involved on as regular a basis as is reasonable. Keep the problem in the publics view. Put the heat on the 'government' officials and they will usually 'see the light'. One fraternal organization that does a lot of public assistance is Woodmen of the World. I know, they are an insurance company, but they do have local 'clubs' and they do a lot of community service. Do any of the tombstones say Woodmen of the World on them, or Women of Woodcraft, or Neighbors of Woodcraft? If there are any of those there it may be some more incentive for them to assist you. I wish that I could help in your project but Colorado is a bit of a commute. Good luck in your project. It's not just the small family cemeteries either. I was to a major one in Albuquerque, NM, Fairview Cemetery, and the 'historic' part of it was a shambles when I visited a couple of years ago with trash all over, trees all dead, fence torn down, most markers knocked over. When I asked in the main office about the condition of that part of their cemetery I was told that it was not part of the perpetual care cemetery and they couldn't keep the vandals out so they don't bother about restoring it any more."
  • 11-16-1999, Marsha Maddux-North [KGBM1234@aol.com], "Hi! Susan, I just met you online for the first time tonight and I couldn't be more thrilled. Susan you have located my relatives in your cemetery that we would never have known where they were.  I hope I can be of some assistance...either as a friend or monetarily...since I live too far away to help physically. You are a strong person and I intend to write Sonoma County myself...thank you again from the bottom of my heart...."
  • 11-26-1999, Hugh Kelly [hugokelly@hotmail.com], "Hi, I am sitting here in Co. Wexford, Ireland, reading your site and I am fully behind your efforts to preserve your family cemetery. I am in the process of mapping out our local cemetery for the PP of our area and I know the problems that arise. I moved in 3 weeks ago and I found that people are generally very good.I did find some irregularities on the first day there but when I approached the people concerned and explained the facts to them, they were delighted that somebody was concerned. Your plight is different.You are dealing with "EMPLOYEES" at government level, whom if you ring them they are of the oppinion that you must not upset them.Upset them and suffer.This happens in every country in the world.,Civil servants do not need agro. I am a civil servant and I can tell you that no matter how difficult the problem is, I will try to solve it but my COLLEAGUES will not agree. Fight on and you have the backing of ENNISCORTHY in WEXFORD, Ireland. Yours Very sincerely HUGH KELLY"
  • 12-3-1999, Hellen J Norris [hjnwtn@ayrix.net], "While reading this article tonight, I was reminded of an old family cemetery of my dad's family that I have never visited- there is no road to it in the woods. I have intended to find it for many years and with your experience I am going when it is safe (snakes). I admire anyone who has the courage to stand tall in a country whose people have forgotten how to stand firm on principles. God bless you."
  • 12-9-1999, Sharon [Flintlock@kcnet.com], "I salute your efforts. So many people would have driven off. I go each year,travel 500 mi. to take care of my family. I very seldom make the decoration day, as it is so hot then, but I go in the spring and the fall to Hot Springs, Ar. I am tryin to save money for a headstone for my grandmother and grandfather. I take flowers each time I go, and, after cleaning, the flowers are placed with LOVE. No, they aren't forgotten. My dad has a headstone now, with a single rose engraved in it. The lady has my respect and a cemetery like that is a disgrace to the COUNTY. Mam, Stand and be heard. We have that problem all over the U.S. Communities should get together, with the County road dept. and STOP this disgrace."
  • 06-23-2000, Kathie Bachelet [kab315t@mail.smsu.edu] "Is there any update to your cause? I think what you are doing is wonderful. I would have thought it was law that cemeteries, private or otherwise, had to be protected. We rightfully protect and respect the burial grounds of the American Indians, so why not other Americans? As an anthropoligest/archeologist you are well aware that the discovery of ancient relics can bring so called progress to a halt, as well it should, so why not the graves of our Ancestors. Keep up the fight."

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